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Scion- Juggle between Success & Failures-

 Children and Adults

“Every great cause is born from repeated failures and from imperfect achievements” – Dr. Maria Montessori. 

 Children take success and failures equally. They work again and again to achieve if they fail at something. but The conducive environment is the one, for the child who takes these failures as a learning experience that doesn't judge, and adults here don't operate based on their prejudices.

What happens if we keep correcting the child and disturb his natural way of learning? 

We all grew like that only know, is the common question and comment we hear from many parents and caretakers. 

Let's think of a caterpillar who is trying hard to come out of a cocoon. what happens if someone helps with a lot of sympathies? Are we not disturbing life itself???? 

Every life grows at his/her own pace of development. Expecting them to fit into what we(Adults)  expect is again an interference in the child's development. isn't it?

Every child when he /she is born wants to learn.  Children are born explorers.

 They absorb everything around them like a sponge.  Let's trust. And guide Without hurting their self-esteem. 

 

If I apply this logic to adults why for adults it's so difficult to take failures?  I  can think of a few reasons.  Childhood conditioning/ fear that people judge/ insecurities/ not letting go/ taking things personally.... the list goes on and on.

For instance, I failed and got back up several times but once I had a tough time letting go just because someone told me I am a failure. 

 when I reflect on why it's so easy for children to let go and not for adults like me? . I found a way to come out aswell. so everyone can. 

whatever you might be going through think from different perspectives, Adapt yourself to the situation, and let go. 

When children see how my parents handle situations. No school can teach these.  They definitely evolve as strong-willed adults.

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