A patch of History-Evolve

 How Open are we????


  Raising a child who was not learning in conventional ways was making me angry. That anger was my helplessness. The moment I realized, there was a gift called Google. We had a computer too Luckily. I was just hooked to a computer. Found ideas, tried, experimented. Gave up at times. Consoled me for not being helpful. Raised, failed, got back up again fell again ..... went on...

I didn't know to even talk to people. Still learning😅 but went on talking to people just to find out what works for my child. A person who did not like the act of calling people and checking in went on calling 2 to 3 calls per day. Bike ride of at least 50 km per day to check out schools.  

Not at all a great thing but an evolution for a Mother!!!!! A mother is born the moment child is born.

Things worked. Though we are not perfect.

2022 made us so strong. . We have become a little Nonjudgemental, empathetic, kind, etc, etc. but in 2002 scenario was different If children are extremely active, Mothers get the blame. If children don't sit at a place, mothers get the blame. If children throw tantrums, mothers get the blame. If children watch TV, mothers are blamed. 

Finally what matters is a Happy family Happy children. Providing nurturing environment is what is needed.  We are not ideals. But reflect, work on it the next time. Show your children that, though we are not perfect, how can we correct our mistakes. 

Aarunya Learning Community,

Scion blogs,

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  1. UnknownMarch 31, 2022 at 3:30 AM

    Good to hear about your experiences, ma'am. Keep writing and sharing. I'd love to read more of your parenting and teaching experiences

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